I am a sex & intimacy coach and psychologist whose expertise lies in working with individuals, couples, and groups to explore their sexuality, discover a deeper level of sexual congruence, heal from past sexual trauma, as well as create more meaningful, pleasurable, exciting, and authentic intimate relationships.
On a mission to create an open dialogue about sex, sexual identity, and self-expression, I am the host of 2 popular podcasts The A To Z Of Sex® and Sex Spoken Here. I am also a passionate speaker, dynamic workshop facilitator, and sought after expert in the media on the topics of sex, sexuality, intimacy, relationships, and sexual trauma. Whether you are craving more congruence in your sexual identity and presentation, curious about kink, non-monogamy, and/or recovering from sexual trauma, I want you to know YOU are enough. This journey is as unique as your finger print and I will support you to live as all of who you are.
How I Work and Relevant Experience
I have been working with clients for over 30 years and have amassed a large tool kit during that time. I am pragmatic in my work which means that I use the tools I think will work best to help you achieve your goals. I am an active therapist and coach so you can expect me to ask questions, give you homework (that is likely to be as much play as it is work) and refer you to all sorts of resources (books, podcasts, webinars, conferences, summits).
I am an ACC accredited coach with the International Coaching Federation. I use coaching regularly to help people with all aspects of their lives – from relationships to personal growth to business issues.
When I work with trauma, I use a few very effective trauma specific methods of working to help you to move beyond the trauma and back into full life.
Assessments and Family Courts
As a psychologist, I have over 30 years experience of psychometric assessment and have spent a lot of time doing assessments in family court. Should this be an area where you need help, rest assured that I am experienced with the process in both private and public law cases and am recognised as an expert in both types of cases in courts from the magistrates through to the High Court.
I have worked with many people who make their careers in adult industries over the years as a therapist, a coach and an expert witness in family court proceedings. I work with individuals, couples, poly groups and also offer group work as a more economical solution.
- HCPC registered (counselling psychologist)
- ACC accredited coach (ICF)
- Associate Fellow of the British Psychological Society
- Chartered Psychologist